A wrong number

Just 10 minutes ago I called my Dad.  Yes, I know he’s passed away, but sometimes I forget.

I have done this 4 other times in the past couple weeks.  The phone starts to ring and my brain finally clicks in.  He’s not there anymore.  I can’t tell him the latest WB story that would make him laugh and remind me I was not such a treat as a teen.  Or the mess that is my full time job and the reminder from him that I need to stand up for myself and stop being a door mat.

It’s starting to register he won’t be here to see WB go off to University, to see my sister get married next year.  To see me finally go back to school after he hounded me for years about it.   I need to find someone to do my taxes now…he was an accountant and did my sister’s and I.  He always had a back to school / end of summer BBQ on the Labour Day wknd with about 30 family and friends and there isn’t one this year.  No funny aprons for BBQ’ng…a new one every year.

I can not remove him from cell or home phone call list.  I can’t.

I miss my Dad.

Homebound!!

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My little (who am I kidding) man is coming home tomorrow morning with 4 bags of luggage, a pound of dirt, an inch taller and a life time of memories. 

I’ve missed ya* WB.  The house has been too quiet and I’ve felt like a piece of me has been missing.  Welcome home handsome!!!

* When I’m complaining about the laundry, the number of kids here and the lack of an attention span in a week, please remind me of this post.

3rd post in a day and 3rd rant in 2…we’re on a roll over here

Wow, how prolific am I the past 2 days??  Apparently the full moon is making me a writing machine.  That or my insomnia.   Have not slept more than 8 hours in the past 3 days for no reason.

One of the grocery stores near me just converted to a “Superstore” and refuses to offer plastic bags.  Yes, you read that right.  While I’m all for the green movement, here’s my email to them:

Hello,

I am writing to express my dismay at your decision to make the new Superstore a bagless store.  Please do not misunderstand, I am all for the green revolution.  In fact I own 5 of your PC cloth bags and use them regularly.  I also recycle all possible garbage.

My issue is with the dictating to me, your customer, how I can shop.  I will not purchase the bins, as it is not feasible for me to store them either in my car or my home and remember to always have them with me.  As for the cloth bags, while they are great, hold a lot and wash up well, I will not transport meat in them, nor do I always remember to have them on me.

Like most individuals, I do need to stop at the grocery store during the week to pick up several items that may have been missed in the weekly “big shop” or have run out of.  If I were to purchase more than 3 items, how am I to carry them out of the store?

While I respect your green movement, you do realize that 90% of the public reuses plastic shopping bags for garbage, dog pick ups, etc.  By not supplying bags that can be reused for these things, people are forced to purchase the brand name bags for their garbage bins.  These bags, as has been proven, are heavier and take twice as long to break down in the landfills.  So how are you helping again?  I do believe you are adding to the problem with this decision.

After walking thru your new store this evening, just to see, I would also like to comment on a few things I noticed.  The shopping carts you have specifically for the bins, does not have seating for a child.  So, I guess people with bins don’t have kids??  Can afford a babysitter for their grocery shopping??  Also, your self check out does not adequately support using the bins.  And the fact I have to self bag?  Doesn’t that put you on the same level as a No Frills but with higher prices?  And exactly how much are you paying the people at the door to make sure I’m not stealing?

Personally, I think the wise decision would have been to have plastic bags as an option, but charge for them.  Ultimately, you have lost my business as have all your chains.  It’s not good business sense to tell your customers what they should be doing and then limit their options.

I would appreciate a reply to this in a timely fashion, i.e. 10 business days and if none is received, I will be going to the newspapers.

Sincerely

I’m dreaming of BBQ

I live across from the lake in my town.  This is going on this week end and is always a lot of fun. 

My entire house smells of ribs and I am starving at 12:06 am.  Going to be a long, fattening week end.

A Proposal

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This beautiful little girl asked WB to marry her today.  She told him to wait for her because she was meant to be his wife.

I love a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it.  Even if she is only 6.  Her parents have a handful there when that one becomes a teenager.  There’s a reason I was given a boy because I’d be locking her up right about now.

Open letter to my new neighbours

So apparently it’s my day for rants.  Who knew??

It’s Wednesday people, not the weekend, and a massive party with ear splitting noise that would rival Indy 500 is not acceptable in this “hood”.

When I yell over the fence to “shut up and turn the music down” at 11:30pm, I don’t deserve the “You F%^^n whore, crawl back in your hole and leave us be.”

Dear God, are you seriously our future?  I am scared… very scared for my government pension all of a sudden.  And I’ve been paying into that sucker since I was 13.  According to the government, I am enititled to $256.32 a month at this point.  WOOT!!

So, when I tell you that trash talking makes no difference and I have no problem calling the cops….your response should be, “Sorry.  We’ll keep it down.”

Nope.  You decide to climb the fence yelling “I’ll teach you a f%^^^ lesson bitch.”  You’re what, all of 20 arsehole??  Don’t get the gaudy chains caught on the fence….that would be a shame if you harmed yourself…not.

So, when I used the portable in my hand to call the cops and report you and they came and shut you all down….who’s the f%%%%% bitch now????

Never under estimate an older neighbour who has connections. 

The College and University kids are back and the house next to me is a rental.  Going to be some good blog material from the looks of things…and pics if I can stand on the old paint can to see over the fence.

But for now….quiet.  They have been disbanded.

Dear Telus…you suck

August 29, 2007  

To The Office of the President, 

I have been a TELUS customer since December 2004.  In that time, I have experienced a serious decline in the level of customer service, culminating in the fight for the past 2 weeks to have a credit owed applied to my account. 

On July 27, 2007 I called in to question several charges to my son’s phone.  The calls were made in the evening, after 6pm and should have been a part of our Extended Shared Evenings & Weekends.  After being put on hold for 15 minutes, I hung up and emailed your e.Care department.  I received a call back approximately 20 minutes later from the CSR I had been dealing with to inform me a credit of 18.55 + applicable taxes would be applied to my next billing. 

Fast forward to August 22nd, 2007.  No credit has appeared on my August bill and when I call in; I am told the credit is still open for review.  What does that mean exactly?  The CSR was unable to tell me, just that it could not be applied till the individuals involved had closed it.   

While I was on the phone, I was questioning a charge of 4.67 for the Shared Evenings and Weekends package.  I was told this was because I asked to have the service added.  First and foremost, I never did.  Secondly, I already pay 10.00 a month for that and have since we switched to the Family Plan in September 2006. 

Again, after being on the phone for over 20 minutes, with no resolutions, I advised the CSR that someone better figure it out and call me back before the end of the day.  When Jordan called me back, he told me the credit for 18.55 was closed and would be on my September statement and that the 4.67 was TELUS’ error and would be on my September statement as well. 

Imagine my surprise to get a reply from your e.Care department telling me that my credit of 18.55 was clearly visible on my bill and they didn’t know why I couldn’t see it.  They also stated that I should be able to view a history of my transactions.  This is not the case.  I copy and pasted my last 2 ebills into my reply, to show that I am capable of reading and using the internet.  No where on my ebill as of August 29, 2007 does it show the amount of my Last Bill as your e.Care department seems to think it does.  Also, no where am I able to view a history of my transactions. 

I called back into your Billing department, as my frustration level had far exceeded what it should for 18.55, but then a lack of customer service and poor communication skills on the CSR’s parts will do that to a person. 

According to Christine in your Billing department, whom I gave my ID and password to, she was unable to see what the e.Care department can see and feel I am too illiterate to see.  She even stated that she thought it looked as though changes had been made to the format of the ebill. 

As it stands right now, I have switched back to paper invoices instead of e bills as I can no longer trust the data you make available to me online.  It’s glaringly apparent it’s different from what is on your end, which creates a great sense of distrust.   

Apparently both of these credits have been applied to my bill and I should just accept that.  Unfortunately, after the ridiculous amount of time I have wasted going back and forth with TELUS about this, I am hesitant to take your word for this.  I will wait till I receive a hard copy showing this to be a concrete fact. 

I would also suggest that you hire individuals for your e.Care department who can actually read a customer’s complaint in its entirety and respond correctly to that complaint.  I routinely when asking questions thru email, have to send multiple emails just to get a full answer and to be quite honest, the condescending wording in the one received August 29th, 2007 at 1:22PM ensured I will be leaving TELUS in December 2007. 

I would appreciate a written reply to this letter within a suitable timeframe. 

Sincerely,

And the good news is….

I have enrolled in a University nearby to take the 4 remaining courses I need for my Bachelor of Commerce.  I’m grinning ear to ear just typing that:)  The courses are available online, so I don’t need to worry about getting to classes on time, etc.  And, if I finish with an 80% or higher, my company pays me back 75% of the cost of the course.  Yippee!!!  I don’t know what I’m more excited about – the courses or shopping for school supplies for me too!!!

I got pregnant with WB when I was in University and was never able to go back after I had him.  It was either finances, time, babysitters, un cooperative bosses, fear on my part I didn’t have it in me anymore – every possible reason this single mom could come up with.  I was 4 courses shy of my degree.

I’ve been thinking about life and missed opportunities a lot the past couple weeks and decided I’m not going to have any regrets in my life.  So, I registered, was accepted and start on Wednesday of next week.  It’s going to involve a lot of time management on my part, as I have WB and 2 jobs…oh, that’s right, the other news – 3 jobs.

I have a knack for streamlining an office, geting rid of clutter and making most procedures electronic.  I have been asked by 2 of our members to come into their stores and clean up their admin side.  After the initial consult and a couple visits, I can pretty much set everything up from home, so this is a win win too.  And its good money, which with WB heading off to University this time next year, every little bit helps.

So there you go – all my good news.  Hope it was worth the wait.

Beautiful jewellery, absolutely beautiful

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 I was over at Jen’s blog getting caught up and clicked on the link for someone she tagged in a meme.  Not only is Lori funny – and I promise to read more soon – but she makes beautiful jewellery.

I bought myself the ring in the picture to celebrate all the changes I am making in my life starting today.  It’s whimsical, fun and one of a kind.  Something I want my life going forward to be.  Thanks Jen and Lori for leading me to the icing on my cake today.

I don’t usually believe them….

This is my horoscope for today, that I just read at 8:45pm:

Leo (July 23 — Aug. 22)

You are no longer so interested in doing things as they have traditionally been done or so willing to be led by others. What’s needed is a simple but effective plan for change. A revolutionary idea is about to be hatched.

This morning I decided to do something that has the potential to alter my life dramatically.  I’m a little spooked right now.  More details tomorrow.

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